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Unfriending amnesty - Not a rock, I'm just Ruth
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Unfriending amnesty
The news today on Jack's cancer was not good -- it will continue to be not good.
It's going to be hard, but we're not giving up.

This is to announce an unfriending amnesty - if you don't want to hear me talk about Jack's cancer and my feelings connected with it, unfriend me.

I will still be writing fiction - a mix of fandom and original stuff. It won't always be anime, my focus is mostly Supernatural now, but I will go where my whimsy takes me.

Not your cup of tea? Unfriend me.

I'm still trying to get my thoughts together. I'll be able to talk about it at some point.
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mlevins From: mlevins Date: February 19th, 2009 12:53 am (UTC) (Link)
I went through a lot of ups and downs with my mom, so I totally agree with the "not giving up". You do what you must.

As for unfriending, I'm here for the long-haul
ashkitty From: ashkitty Date: February 19th, 2009 01:02 am (UTC) (Link)
As if you could get rid of me now. <333
rymenhild From: rymenhild Date: February 19th, 2009 01:04 am (UTC) (Link)
I'm not here for the Supernatural, and I'm not going anywhere. *hugs you both*
rhina From: rhina Date: February 19th, 2009 01:04 am (UTC) (Link)
*hugs tight*

I'm here with you Ruth. You need your friends and I only hope that by listening I can offer you enough support.

sentairick From: sentairick Date: February 19th, 2009 01:35 am (UTC) (Link)
Not going away anytime soon, Sensei.
lil_1337 From: lil_1337 Date: February 19th, 2009 02:03 am (UTC) (Link)
*hugs* I'm sorry to hear that the news wasn't good. I may not always reply, but I am thinking of you and unfriending never occurred to me.
darthanne From: darthanne Date: February 19th, 2009 02:03 am (UTC) (Link)

I'm here for the duration and my thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Feel free to IM me anytime, often I don't see you online until you're signing off, especially if I'm up and down and multitasking.
thistlerose From: thistlerose Date: February 19th, 2009 02:17 am (UTC) (Link)
*hug* I'm sticking with you, honey. Hang in there.
okaasan59 From: okaasan59 Date: February 19th, 2009 03:01 am (UTC) (Link)
For what it's worth, I'll be here. *hugs*
From: baikautsugi Date: February 19th, 2009 03:20 am (UTC) (Link)
Sorry to hear that things don't seem to be getting better, but I'm glad to see that you haven't lost the spirit. I'm going to continue to hang around here to cheer you and your husband on (with everyone else). *HUGS*
maychorian From: maychorian Date: February 19th, 2009 03:39 am (UTC) (Link)
I'm so sorry things are not going well. I hope for good news in the future!
solrosa From: solrosa Date: February 19th, 2009 04:22 am (UTC) (Link)
*hugs* You are the only one who understands what my dad is going through right now. And you're a wonderful friend. I'm not going to unfriend you. I'll send lots of healing thoughts towards Jack. Keep strong. *hugs*
seidoo_ryuu From: seidoo_ryuu Date: February 19th, 2009 05:18 am (UTC) (Link)
Can't get rid of me that easily. I'm in this for the long haul. :)

*hugs for good measure*
alena_yuy From: alena_yuy Date: February 19th, 2009 07:15 am (UTC) (Link)
Unfriend? Ha! As if There's others I'd rather unfriend because they don't acutally POST anything anymore. As for the rest of it, I hope things get better. Love and kisses, good wishes to Jack. Perhaps I'll browse ebay for something to send him. Would he like a Moonflower child?
windsorblue From: windsorblue Date: February 19th, 2009 07:49 am (UTC) (Link)
I'm so sorry. *hugs*

If there's anything I can do, please let me know.
sharona1x2 From: sharona1x2 Date: February 19th, 2009 09:32 am (UTC) (Link)
Never give up, Ruth, and know that your friends will be here for you (just as you'd be there for us). *hugs*
From: mrstotten Date: February 19th, 2009 10:42 am (UTC) (Link)
So sorry to hear that {{{hugs}}} I love LJ even more for the people than I do for the fic, so you're stuck with me too I'm afraid.

Keeping you in my thoughts

un_conscience From: un_conscience Date: February 19th, 2009 03:04 pm (UTC) (Link)
You will NOT be taken off my flist! NEVER! You need to talk and write about what's happening. You are awesome. I wish there was something I could do to take away your pain. But lieu of that, I will listen. And pray for you & Jack.
jane_somebody From: jane_somebody Date: February 19th, 2009 10:19 pm (UTC) (Link)
sevenall From: sevenall Date: February 19th, 2009 10:49 pm (UTC) (Link)
Hey, I'm sticking with you.

Please feel free to talk all you need, that's what a flist is for.

arliss From: arliss Date: February 20th, 2009 01:10 am (UTC) (Link)
I'm here, love. Where else would I be?
snakewhissperer From: snakewhissperer Date: February 20th, 2009 09:20 am (UTC) (Link)
I want to be on any filter you're comfortable having me on- including both fo those. And that offer to call still stands.

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